Video 1. "How can I tell if my marriage is in trouble." With Sue Johnson. Click on this Video link.
Video 2 - "If you want to shout at your wife in my office you can leave right now and take your wife with you. Your therapy is over." "Are you serious?" asks the husband. "Yes I am. It's the law in my office." says Harville. "That's so different from other therapists who want to see the fight in the room" says the interviewer. "It was probably the first time this man had a boundary set around that behaviour." Harville Hendrix. Video link.
Video 3. What 35 years of research show is that couples who last in the long term are always working to feel like a team. Here's a gorgeous dance video about team work. Video link.
Video 4. 'What is a healthy marriage'. another one with Sue Johnson. Video link.
Video 5. This is a video of a courageous couple - a mother and son. The son starts the process with, "She doesn't listen to me". Is that true? Their interaction is powerful and challenging to hang out with. His mother has been struggling with breast cancer. Byron Katie helps them question the fears that keep them from working as a team. Video link.
Video 6. Esther Perel on infidelity across cultures as an attachment issue in the complexity of love and marriage. Video link.
Video 7. "She's not getting over her daughter's death" - is that true with Byron Katie. This time a bloke gets in touch with his feelings about his sister's grief by simply owning the grief as his own rather than projecting it onto her. Video link.
Video 8. Sue Johnson talks about the movie 'Castaway' with Tom Hanks, in order to show the life and death urgency of attachment. Video link.
Video 10: And a sublime song for a wedding even, Nora Jones live, 'Come Away With Me'. Video link.
Video 11. 'Gate C22' a touching, funny and true poem about love and attachment read by the author Ellen Bass http://ellenbass.com/ The words can be found here. And here is the YouTube Video Link.
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